Here is a word of advice that has rolled down the generations of my family from mothers to daughters: It is just as easy to marry a rich man as it is to marry a poor man, sometimes even easier. It isn't that we are "gold diggers" in any manner of speaking, but the fact of the matter is that most divorces are caused by financial stress in the marriage. With that in mind, it simply makes sense to look for men who are financially secure and successful.
One common trait among financially successful men is that they are more stable in other areas of their lives, as well. Putting aside the rich playboy type who did not nothing more than be birthed into old family money, men who have acquired money have usually worked hard to do so. They have a retirement to look forward to after they have made enough to live out their golden years on and that is when they will relax the rest of their days away with the woman they love, the one who has taken care of them all those years in anticipation of this.
They aren't typically found partying all weekend or flitting from job to job without ever building up any actual job security. These men who work so diligently and steadfastly may not be the epitome of excitement, but they can certainly be kind and loving. Who knows, there may be some who keep the party going throughout the evening and into the night, but most that I've met are fairly sedate and like a relaxing evening after working at often stressful careers all day. Don't take that to mean that they are boring, that is far from the truth. They are great conversationalists, having intelligent topics to discuss and debate with you. Their sense of humor can lean toward the dry side, but it is there.
If this sounds like the man you are interested in meeting, they really aren't that hard to find at all. Keep in mind that they can afford to be more selective about the women that they choose to get involved with. In fact, especially if they are in positions where people are watching them, they almost must be picky about who they socialize with and eventually, who they marry. You will need to be up to par yourself. Looking respectable, having good manners and exhibiting socially acceptable behavior will be very important if you want to be with someone who is financially successful. Make certain before you head out with your goal in mind that you are ready to be with one of these men.
If, after all of that, you still want to venture into the world of the successful and secure, there are several places that you can visit, depending on what kind of man you are looking for. For example, if you want a medical professional, they can be found in the hospital. If you have no one to visit, how about volunteering there? Attorneys and other legal professionals tend to hang out in eateries around the courthouse at mealtimes. Becoming a regular at one of these establishments will put you right in their sights. Airports can be goldmines for meeting traveling businessmen, but be careful that the one you meet is actually single and not just a lonely man looking for company. With the airport approach, you will most likely be gaining a long distance friendship to start with, but it could be just what you're looking for.
If you have no particular career in mind, maybe you are more interested in the cultural aspects of the financially successful. Even if you have to save your pennies, invest in an evening out to an art exhibition or a political fund-raiser. Dine at upscale establishments. Often, the singles take the seating by the bar as they don't need the larger tables in the main dining area, so this may be a place to check out.
Financial success does not ensure a successful and happy relationship, but it does take out a lot of the stress that comes with money troubles. It is no more difficult to find one and it can be easier to get one to commit long-term for a marriage. They want a partner and a helper so that they can more comfortably focus on their careers. Maybe you are that person!