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Is a Threesome a Healthy way to Spice up a Relationship



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A threesome can spice up a relationship as long as it stays away from becoming real.

There's nothing wrong to talk about it while intercourse, because its a controlled situation in a safe environment where nothing can go wrong, but taking it to the next level will bring consequences that can be hard to deal with. When a threesome is just a part of a couples fantasy they are only letting the sight sense get involved, they are visualizing a nameless third party who happens to be odorless! They are controlling the situation by not letting the rest of their senses be part of it. Straight people wont be ok kissing a body part that has just been kissed by a person of the same sex!

But why do we have to think of a threesome as an alternative way to spice up our relationship? As men age, the level of testosterone decreases making it more difficult to keep an erection, and when this begins, fear also kicks in leaving them with the desperate need to overcome the issue.

The real problem is that porn has become a very important part of our culture; we are letting it tell us how our sex life should be. And what we fail to see is that we are being hyper stimulated by it. Porn gives us the perfect setting, where beautiful flawless women are having sex with handsome well endowed hairless men.

This hyper stimulation is making us set the bar really high, therefore we are no longer easy to get aroused, so desperate times call for desperate measures ,and all of the sudden the idea of doing what we are watching in a movie doesn't seem too crazy. The big problem here is that this behavior creates addiction, once we go pass the boundary of a threesome; chances are that regular one on one sex will no longer do it for us. This can easily escalate to proportions that can get out of our control. When this happens, we are prone to make poor decisions based on this urge to fulfill our needs.

There are most of the time two people in a threesome that share feelings with each other , and it takes only a word or an action to hurt these feelings, this makes the whole situation like walking on eggshells . Even a smile at the wrong time can create chaos, break bonds and eventually end up the relationship.

We don't need to get involved in a threesome to spice up our love life. What we need is to undergo a period of cleansing from all the hyper stimulation the media gives us, only then we will go back to see our love one as beautiful or handsome as the first day, and the sex will be once again awesome!

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