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Love again after a Broken Heart



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When you have had your heart broken, it can take a very long time to love and trust someone again. You feel even more cautious if you have had your heart broken multiple times by people. Don’t let that stop you from loving again though. There are certain things that you can do to help yourself through a broken heart so that you can find love again. They say there is someone for everyone. You just may not have found the right match for you.

Finding Love Again After a Broken Heart:

Find Yourself

Before you can move into a healthy relationship after you have had your heart broken, you need to find yourself again. Give yourself time to get over the broken heart. Discover things about yourself that you have either forgotten or never knew was there. The more you allow yourself to be yourself again, the healthier the new love will be. You don’t have be in a relationship all the time, which is a mistake that many people make over and over again until they learn the most important lesson. That is to learn about themselves and to love themselves so that they are more capable of truly loving someone else.

Reflect then Let Go

Many people never confront their broken heart and therefore find it extremely hard to move on. This is one of the reasons that rebound relationships don't work out. You don't give yourself enough time to think about and confront the past. Take time to think hard about the relationship that you came from. There were good things about it, that is certain. What is also certain is that you will also remember that there were bad times as well. Those bad times took the relationship over and destroyed it. Think about your part in what caused the break up and try to work on those traits about yourself. Once you have confronted the past, you will be able to move on into the future and find true and lasting love in the future.

Where?

If you are wondering where to meet the right person for you, you should first assess where the wrong places are. Going to a bar will usually not find you that lasting love that you are looking for. People aren't themselves in bars. Bars are usually the worst place to find love again after your heart gets broken. You should also stay away from married or separated people. That only leads to trouble. Settle for nothing less than the entire thing. If he/she isn't divorced yet, chances are you will be dragged into something that you don't want to deal with. Wait until a divorce is finalized if you truly want to date this person and vice versa. Let those around you know that you are worth more than a fling.

It is one hundred percent possible to find love again after heartbreak. The most important thing to do is to make sure that you are ready to move on to the next love. If you aren't, it will lead to disaster again. Don't let yourself be involved in a relationship that doesn't stand a chance because you didn't take time to get past the heartbreak that you were already feeling. Let yourself start on a completely fresh note with no hard feelings and trust issues. It is only fair to you and to the other person as well.

 

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